How to Get Your Boss's Boss to Understand

Communication posture is the visible expression of your internal attitude. Long before a single word is spoken, your attitude determines your communication posture. Your communication posture shapes how senior management receives, interprets, and acts on your information. It reflects the intentional communication approach you have chosen to strengthen your influence up the line. Attitude Shapes How You Show Up Attitude is the internal stance you bring into the room. It refl

Removing the entertainment techniques does not mean stripping out engagement. Engagement is essential. It means stripping out the parts of public speaking that are designed to entertain rather than inform.

Your story begins with how you interpret the data through your training and experience. It includes clarifying what you mean by key terms such as reliability, risk, and resiliency. It continues with what the data shows when you graph it and what it does not show. It ends with what you conclude based on your understanding of the patterns, gaps, and limitations.

High‑risk choices involve emotion, uncertainty, and personal judgment. A slide deck cannot carry that weight. Technical professionals and business leaders often forget this and default to presentations because they feel safe. But safety is not the same as effectiveness.

Executives trust people who address tough issues upfront. When you acknowledge uncertainty and outline contingency paths, you demonstrate maturity and awareness. Your credibility takes a hit if they discover something you should have anticipated.

If you don’t lead with the executive answer, you signal that you don’t understand how decisions get made at the top.

The burden of clearly communicating technical information is on you, not the receiver of the message.

Tone still matters, but it cannot compensate for weak content. Decision makers expect facts, logic, and repeatable reasoning. They expect information that stands up to scrutiny over time.

Simple explanations help people connect with the message. They reduce mental demand. They build trust. And they make it far more likely that your audience will remember what you said and take action.

The strongest presentations stick with the audience. In music, a final soaring note or dramatic chord cements the experience. Similarly, in business presentations, a powerful conclusion reinforces that the desired questions have been answered.

Effectively communicating better data means resisting the urge to overwhelm with detail and instead guiding others toward clarity and confidence.

I apply the 1200-word rule even when I have a 30-minute or 45-minute time slot. Keeping my formal remarks to 10 minutes allows more time for the slot to be more interactive and to focus on Q&A.

Instead of asking, “Will I get in trouble if I skip this?” try asking, “Who might I be excluding if I don’t include this?” That shift in mindset is what separates a bare-minimum communicator from a truly effective one.

Ultimately, the question is how you will be remembered. Was your presentation clear, concise, and impactful? Or was it overwhelming and forgettable? The choice is yours.

In the Communicating with FINESSE® framework, effective communication is for the receiver (the decision maker), not the message sender (you).

Enhancing communication skills can help engineers improve collaboration, increase influence within organizations, and advance careers.

Start with your next slide deck. Spend extra time focusing on symbols and shapes instead of colors.

There’s usually less pressure than we imagine, but it also means the real work happens long before the meeting begins.

When I frame uncertainty well, I’m not just saying “we don’t know”—I show what we know, what’s likely, and what to watch.

The soft skills—the people skills—matter most. Ask some of the best people you know for their advice. Great stuff bubbles up!